Thursday, November 18, 2010

The Dash

The Introduction from
The Dash

by Linda Ellis

While it still amazes me, a simple poem I wrote one afternoon forever changed my life. It all began when I faxed a copy of this poem to a syndicated radio show in Atlanta. Soon after receiving it, the host of this popular show read it on the air. Little did I know how much my life would change from that day forward. Titled The Dash, these 36 lines have touched millions of lives and have literally taken on a life of their own by traveling all over the world. I call it uncomplicated poetry in a complicated world.

People are always asking me what, in particular, inspired me to write this poem. I believe it was a combination of things in my life at the time. It was during a period when I was working for the top executives of a very large and successful corporation. It was a strict company with a tense working environment.

I began to watch how the priorities in many lives there had become misaligned. It seemed to me that the bosses were worrying far too much about that which was inconsequential in the scope of life.

Also, resonating in the back of my mind were the words from a letter which had been previously routed around the office. It had been written by the wife of an employee who was aware that she was dying. I was so moved by that letter that I saved a copy of it and continue to live by her words:

Regrets? I have a few. Too much worrying. I worried about finding the right husband and having children, being on time, being late and so on. It didn't matter. It all works out and it would have worked out without the worries and the tears.

If I would have only known then what I know now. But, I did and so do you. We're all going to die. Stop worrying and start loving and living.

Her words stuck with me. Her letter made me stop and think. This is it. This is all we get.

I remember where I was when I first truly realized the significance of the piece that I had written. I was on a business trip in Minnesota, alone in a hotel room. I received an emotional email thanking me for sharing the message of The Dash from a student who had recently heard it as part of a memorial gathering for the Columbine High School students. I sat on the bed and cried.

Several years later, I found myself engulfed in the thoughts and feelings created by my own words as I listened to them read aloud, for what seemed like the very first time, at the funeral of my father...my best friend.

From being performed in an elementary school play somewhere in the heartland of America to being part of a State Supreme Court Justice's speech, from being printed in best-selling novels to high school yearbooks, The Dash has truly affected millions. I may not be able to change to world with these words, but I have certainly been able to influence a portion of it! The poem's words have convinced mothers to spend more time with their children, fathers to spend more time at home, and reunited long-lost loved ones.

The words have changed attitudes, and changed the direction of lives. They have, in their own way, made a difference. I know writing The Dash has changed my life. I hope reading it, in some way, may change yours.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

He has given us hope that we will live

This is a true story, at least according to James S. Hewitt. A retired teacher decided to volunteer some time tutoring children in a local children’s hospital. She was given the name and room number of a nine year old. There was also a note saying that the boy’s class in school was studying nouns and adverbs. The tutor got hold of her fourth grade material and headed over to the hospital. She was shocked to find that the boy was in the burn unit. She almost turned around and went home, but she got up her courage and went inside. He looked even worse than she feared. “Hi,” she said, “I’ll be your teacher while you’re here. It’s important that you learn about nouns and adverbs.” And she went right into the lesson. When she finished, she said she’d be back the next week. And she hurried away.

A few days later the teacher received a call from the boy’s mother asking if she would be coming for a lesson that day. Thinking that she had really done a poor job with the child and that the boy’s mother would rather he be left alone, the lady apologized for her nervousness and said that she would certainly understand if the boy’s Mom would rather she didn’t return. “No, no,” said the Mom, “You have it all wrong. I don’t know what you said to my son, but since your visit he has really been fighting hard to respond to his treatment. It seems that he has finally decided to live.”

The teacher returned the next day and found the child with a therapist and his mother. He was doing his best to cooperate with the therapist. When the boy saw the teacher he said to his mother, “I know I’m going to live. They wouldn’t send a teacher to work on nouns and adverbs with a kid who’s dying, would they?”

He has given us hope that we will live. God wouldn’t send his Son if we were a lost cause. He wouldn’t make Him a King if that King were to have no subjects. He wouldn’t allow him to die on the cross if He didn’t realize that some of us would call out to him with our lives, “Jesus, remember us, when you come into your kingdom.” Modern day prophets of doom who see negative in every aspect of life have given up on society. But Jesus has not given up on us. He refuses to give up. He is the King who loves his subjects. He loves them to death.

33rd Sunday of the Year

Not a Stone upon A Stone – Lk 21:5-19

In 1906, the city of San Francisco was shaken by a powerful earthquake. Broken gas lines ignited uncontrollable fires. It was one of the worst natural disasters ever to strike the United States mainland. The city was virtually destroyed. Afterwards, religious spokesmen began to interpret the disaster in terms of divine judgment. They insisted that God was punishing the city because it was so sinful. They drew parallels between San Francisco and the biblical cities of Sodom and Gomorrah. They predicted that this was the beginning of the end of the world.

In today’s Gospel reading, Jesus gave his disciples a grim prediction of the future. It includes the destruction of the temple. Not one stone will be left upon another. For them that thought was almost unthinkable. They could not imagine life without the temple. But the bad news did not end there. He also told them there would be wars, and earthquakes, and plagues, and famines. Worse yet, they would be persecuted because of their loyalty to him. Worse of all, they would be betrayed by their family members and friends. It was a grim picture indeed.

Why did Jesus tell his disciples all this? I am sure that it was not to satisfy their curiosity about the future. He was not giving them a checklist that they could use to anticipate coming events. Why would he do that? Remember, this is the same man who said: “Do not be anxious about tomorrow. Today has enough troubles of its own.” ( Mt 6:34 ) My guess is that Jesus told them these things because the other things – wars, earthquakes, and famines – have come true in every generation. Perhaps he was simply preparing them and us to face life’s calamities.

We can start by recognizing that many of our troubles are not as fearful as they seem. Some of them are quite manageable. Do you remember we were children and our mother took us to the doctor for the annual flu shot or whatever? We all thought it was the most painful experience of our lives. A doctor, mother and two nurses managed to hold us down. Then it was all over.

We do not have to face life’s calamities alone. Jesus told his disciples not to worry about their defense - that he would provide it. The entire tone of this reading is that he would be with them through all of their calamities. He went so far as to say, “Some of you will be put to death.” But to that grim prediction, he added this strange assurance, “Yet not a hair of your head will be harmed.” What a strange statement – put to death, yet unharmed. It must surely mean that through faith in Christ, can we get beyond the reach of trouble. Nothing can harm us, not even death.

That is high ground for the human spirit. And it is the Christian answer to life’s calamities – not an explanation, but the power to overcome them. Jesus said, “By patient endurance you will save your lives.”

Principles Of Life

  • Winning isn't everything but wanting to win is.
  • You would achieve more, if you don't mind who gets the credit.
  • When everything else is lost, the future still remains.
  • Don't fight too much or the enemy will know your art of war.
  • The only job you start at the top is when you dig a grave.
  • If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for everything.
  • If you do little things well, you'll do big ones better.
  • Only thing that comes to you without effort is old age.
  • You won't get a second chance to make a first impression.
  • Only those who do nothing do not make mistakes.
  • Never take a problem to your boss unless you have a solution.
  • If you are not failing, you're not taking enough risks.
  • Don't try to get rid of your bad temper by losing it.
  • If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.
  • Those who don't make mistakes usually don't make anything.
  • There are two kinds of failures: Those who think and never do, and those who do and never think.
  • Pick battles big enough to matter, small enough to win.
  • All progress has resulted from unpopular decisions.
  • Change your thoughts and you change your world.
  • Understanding proves intelligence, not the speed of the learning.
  • There are two kinds of fools in this world.: Those who give advice and those who don't take it.
  • The best way to kill an idea is to take it to a meeting.
  • Management is doing things right. Leadership is doing the right things.
  • Friendship founded on business is always better than business founded on friendship.

--- Compiled by Tony Peeris

Sunday, November 7, 2010

Sand and Stone

A story tells that two friends were walking
through the desert.
During some point of the journey, they had
an argument, and one friend slapped the
other one in the face. The one who got
slapped was hurt, but without saying anything,
he wrote in the sand:

Today my best friend slapped me in the face.

They kept on walking, until they found an
oasis, where they decided to take a bath.
The one who had been slapped got stuck in
the mire and started drowning, but his
friend saved him. After he recovered from
the near drowning, he wrote on a stone:

Today my best friend saved my life.
The friend, who had slapped and saved his
best friend, asked him, "After I hurt you,
you wrote in the sand, and now, you write
on a stone, why?"

The other friend replied: "When someone
hurts us, we should write it down in sand,
where the winds of forgiveness can erase
it away, but when someone does something
good for us, we must engrave it in stone
where no wind can ever erase it.

Learn to write your hurts in the sand
and to carve your blessings in stone.

-- Unknown

Friday, November 5, 2010

THIRTY-SECOND SUNDAY OF THE YEAR, Luke 20:27-38

Maccabees 7:1-2,9-14; 2 Thessalonians 2:16-3:5; Luke 20:27-38

Homily Outline

  1. The fact of resurrection from the dead:
    1. John 5.25 “I tell you the truth, a time is coming...”
    2. John 6.40 “... I will raise him up at the last day”
    3. Acts 24.15 “... there will be a resurrection of both the righteous and the wicked) (see also Lk 16.24; Jn 5.28-29; Dan 12.2)
  2. Transformation after death:
    1. 1 Cor 15.42-44, 53-54 Perishable has been clothed with the imperishable (2Tim 4.18)
    2. Relationships are changed absolutely -There is no marriage in heaven – love is perfected – future life and relationship exceed earthly relationships – believers are adopted children of God (Gal 4.5-6, 1Jn 3.2)
  3. Live for attaining eternal life
    1. Phil 3.11 “ ...somehow, to attain tot the resurrection from the dead.”
    2. Tit 2.12-13 “... say ‘No’ to ungodliness and worldly passions...”

Sunday Scripture Reflections

with Frank Doyle SJ

I shall be filled, when I awake, with the sight of your glory, O Lord. (Gospel)
Responsorial psalm antiphon
Final resurrection as the goal of all living is a central concept of our Christian faith. It is very much a matter of faith and trust in God’s word as we have no proof or prior experience of such a life nor can we say very much about it. Paul puts it well when he says that “Eye has not seen nor ear heard all that God has prepared for those who love him.”

Visions of ‘heaven’

People of different faiths have tried using all kinds of material delights to describe life after death. We have often be influenced by the images in the Book of Revelation which has led us to describe ‘heaven’ as a place where we kneel on clouds, play harps and sing the praises of God all day long and every day for ever. These images are not in the long run helpful and we do better going with the author of the mystical book The Cloud of Unknowing which suggests that we only begin to know God when we realise that we do not know him nor can we know him in any full way in his life. And the same goes for the kind of life we will live face to face with him.

A challenge

In today’s Gospel Jesus is challenged by a group of Sadducees. Just before this he had been challenged by their opponents, the Pharisees and Scribes, who tried to force Jesus into an untenable position by asking him if taxes should be paid to Caesar or not. Jesus had dealt effectively with them and reduced them to silence.


The Sadducees

The Sadducees were looked down on by the Pharisees. They were seen as materialistic opportunists who tried to keep on the right side of the Roman authorities. They included the aristocratic leaders of the Jewish community and occupied high positions, such as the High Priesthood (e.g. Annas and Caiaphas). While the Pharisees were seen as rigid upholders of the Law they were also seen, by the Sadducees, as ‘modernisers’ in their beliefs and in their interpretations of the Law.

The Sadducees, on the other hand, although they took a far more liberal approach to the observance of the Law, were conservative in their beliefs. They only accepted the first five books of the Bible (the Pentateuch – Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy) and did not accept beliefs contained in the other books. Thus they excluded faith in the bodily resurrection of the just and in the existence of spirits and angels. (None of these beliefs is overtly contained in the Pentateuch.)

Setting a trap

Like the Pharisees, however, in the previous incident, they wanted to trap Jesus into discrediting himself. They hoped to show that belief in a future life was not only wrong but self-contradictory.

They come forward with a case which they think, from their point of view, is totally unanswerable. According to a law cited both in the book of Deuteronomy (accepted by the Sadducees) and also in the book of Ruth (which they did not accept), a brother was supposed to bring up an heir for a brother who died childless. This was to guarantee that the property would stay within the family and that the father’s name would be carried on to posterity.

Extreme example

They propose an exaggerated example of the law’s application. A man married but died childless. His brother then married the widow but he, too, died without an heir. And so all seven brothers married the same woman in succession and all died childless. The question, then, was: To which of the seven brothers was the woman the wife?

The question posed no problem to the Sadducees. They did not believe in a future life so those who had died no longer existed. But, if Jesus believes in a future life, how will he answer their question? Either he has to admit that she is the wife of all of them; in which case he is making God approve of polygamy (in this case, polyandry) or else the only rational conclusion is that there is no future resurrection.

No problem

In fact, for Jesus there is no problem at all. For in the future life he sees that people are in a completely new relationship with God and with each other. Already in this life, Jesus has taught that to be in the Kingdom is to have entered a new relationship with others. In the Kingdom people have entered a new family where all – irrespective of their origins – are our brothers and sisters.

In a striking scene where Jesus is told that his mother and brothers are looking for him, he replies, “Who is my mother? Who are my brothers? He looked at the people sitting around him and said, ‘Look! Here are my mother and my brothers! Whoever does what God wants him to do is my brother, my sister, my mother’” (Mark 3:33-35). In the life to come, too, that is the family to which we shall all belong. Relationships such as our blood family, ethnic origin, social class…will become totally irrelevant. The question of the Sadducees has absolutely no meaning.

A this-world reality

Jesus’ reply, as reported by Luke, implies that such irrelevance has already begun. “the children of this world take wives and husbands, but those who are judged worthy of a place in the other world and in the resurrection from the dead do not marry because they can no longer die, for they are the same as the angels, and being children of the resurrection they are children of God”.

This seems to point to a phenomenon already appearing in the early Church where people were foregoing marriage – becoming celibates – in order to free themselves for total dedication to the work of the Kingdom. These people are, as it were, a kind of sacrament of the relationships that will exist in the future and eternal Kingdom.

Turning the tables

However, in a final rebuttal to the Sadducees, Jesus uses their own weapon against them. They had used the levirate law from the Pentateuch, supposedly written by Moses, against Jesus. He now quotes from the same Pentateuch to show that Moses shows that the dead are raised to life. He takes the scene from the book of Exodus where Moses faces the burning bush. Moses asks the voice that speaks to him, “When I go to the Israelites and say to them ‘The God of your ancestors sent me to you’, they will ask me, ‘What is his name?’ So what can I tell them?” To which God replies: “’I AM who I AM. You must tell them: ‘The one who is called I AM has sent me to you.’ Tell the Israelites that I, the Lord, the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, have sent you to them. This is my name forever; this is what future generations are to call me” (Exodus 3:13-15).

God of the living

As Jesus then points out, God is a God of the living and not of the dead. How can he call himself the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, if they no longer exist? The Sadducees are silenced for they cannot refute the words of the Pentateuch, which to them is the word of God.

Famous episode

The First Reading deals with another famous episode found in the book of the Maccabees. It happened in the reign of the Syrian king, Antiochus IV, a man of extreme instability and cruelty who wanted to unify his empire under a common Greek culture. Among other things, he tried to abolish Jewish practices and profaned the Temple. Not surprisingly, he met with stiff resistance and today’s passage describes a scene where a mother and her seven sons are one by one tortured and executed for refusing to renounce their faith by eating pork.

A price worth paying

The essence of the story is that there are values in life which are more precious than one’s own earthly life and are worth dying for. The sacrifice of martyrdom is seen as a worthwhile price to pay and will be rewarded by entry into a new and altogether better life. As the fourth son says: “Ours is the better choice, to meet death at men’s hands, yet relying on God’s promise that we shall be raised up by him; whereas for you there can be no resurrection, no new life.”

Our Christian life then is based, first, on the firm hope that one day we will be perfectly united with the One from whom all things come and to whom all things are destined to return. It is put so well by Paul writing to the Romans: “We know that up to the present time all of creation groans with pain, like the pain of childbirth. But it is not just creation alone which groans; we who have the Spirit as the first of God’s gifts also groan within ourselves as we wait for God to make us his sons and set our whole being free.”

True hope

He continues by clarifying what is meant by ‘hope’. “For it was by hope that we were saved; but if we see what we hope for, then it is not really hope. For who hopes for something he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience” (Romans 8:22-25). Our hope is based on a deep faith and trust in a loving God as the Source and Goal of all living. It is not merely the hope that we express in a phrase such as, “I hope the weather will be fine tomorrow.” Rather it is a confidence of one day experiencing something which is at present beyond our grasp.

The readings of this Sunday are appropriate as we approach the end of the Church year and we are drawn to reflect on the end of all things and especially the end of our own individual lives. As the Preface for Christian Burial reminds us: “Lord, for your faithful people life is changed, not ended. When the body of our earthly dwelling lies in death we gain an everlasting dwelling place in heaven.” Next Sunday we will consider what we should be doing in the meantime.

C32 GOD WILL NEVER LOSE HIS CHILDREN

Jesus never spoke too much about life after the resurrection. That could have been the reason why some rich Sadducees started making fun about the faith in the resurrection of the dead. Jesus responded more seriously and addressed the real issue.

First of all, he said, life after the resurrection will not be a continuation of this life, as we know it now. It is wrong to imagine life after death in terms of our own present experiences.

There will be a total change between this life on earth and the future life, after death, which will depend on God’s bountiful love. The latter will be an absolutely new life. We can only hope for, but never explain or describe it.

The new Christian generations always kept a humble and honest attitude towards this mystery of “eternal life”. Paul tells the Christians of Corinth that it is something that “eye has never seen, or ear heard and no man has ever imagined.” It is something that “God has prepared for those who love Him.”

These words become an encouraging warning and a joyous expectation. First of all, heaven is something “totally new” that no experience on earth can compare; and, on the other hand, such “new life” has been prepared by God for the total fulfilment of our highest aspirations. Faith is not simply the satisfaction of our human desires, but the foundation of our hopes and expectations based on God.

That is, precisely, what Jesus meant when he referred to something all the Sadducees accepted: that God in the Biblical tradition was “The God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.” All the Patriarchs had died, yet God continued to be their God, their protector and friend. Death could not destroy God’s love and fidelity towards them.

Jesus draws his own definitive conclusion with regard to our faith: “God is not a God of the dead, but of the living; for Him everyone is alive.” God is an inexhaustible fountain of life. Death does not take away his beloved sons and daughters. When we, here on earth, weep their loss, God sees them full of new life as they are welcomed by their loving Father.

According to Jesus, the relationship between God and his children cannot be destroyed by death. His love is much stronger than our biological extinction. That is why, in humility and simplicity, we dare to say, “To you, o my God, I lift up my soul. Do not let me be shamed.” ( Psalm 25, 1-2 )

C32 Marriage Made In Heaven -

Our gospel reading for today calls to center stage a group of men seldom mentioned in the New Testament – maybe a half-dozen times, and three of those are parallel accounts. They were known as Sadducees. Unlike the Pharisees, their chief concern was not religion, but business and politics. They were the aristocrats, the ruling class of Jerusalem. They had a religion of sorts, but it was mostly a matter of expedience.

They were in charge of the temple and used it to make themselves wealthy. Politically,

the Sadducees were pragmatic, philosophically they were epicurean and hedonist; morally, they were conservative and liberal; theologically, they were heretics.

Their only concern with Jesus was his threat to their power and profit. Had he left them alone, they would have gladly left him alone, too. But Jesus would not do that. He kept doing and saying things that threatened their business. Jesus taught the people that God loved gentiles as well as Jews and that human relationships were more important than temple sacrifices and offerings.

After a time, the Sadducees concluded that Jesus was indeed a dangerous fanatic and had to be dealt with. So they set about to discredit him.

One day in the temple, they confronted him with a riddle, to which they thought there was no answer. It was about a woman who was successively married to seven brothers. She married one; he died; so she married the next, and so on until all seven were dead.

Finally, the woman also died.

That was their story, and on the basis of it they asked this question: “At the resurrection, whose wife will she be?” The intent of the question was to disprove the idea of immortality and, thereby, discredit Jesus by making him look foolish.

As the Sadducees saw it, this was the basic religious disagreement between them and Jesus. He believed in life after death and they did not. But the difference between them really ran far deeper than that. Their disagreement was not simply about life after death, but about life itself. They thought of life in terms of quantity. Jesus thought of life in terms of quality. They thought of life in terms of time. Jesus thought of life in terms of eternity. They thought of life as a strictly human endeavor. Jesus thought of life as a great adventure with God.

This is not to say the Sadducees were atheist, at least not in the theoretical sense. They had a vague concept of God, but it never occurred to them that God had anything to do with life or that life had anything to do with God. As far as they were concerned, life originated with birth and ended with death. In between those two events, a person did the best he could with whatever he god, because he was all of it. When it was over, it was over.

Jesus, on the other hand, believed that God was totally involved in life. He said, “God is not the God of the dead but of the living. All are alive in him.” From that statement,

we can briefly draw three lessons about life.

Number one: life is a gift from God.

It comes about, of course, through the biological process of birth. But that is simply the method God uses to share the great gift of life with his children. Jesus believed this about his own life and the lives of others as well. This was the reason he treated all people with respect. They were the children of his Father. The spark of life that burned within them was a direct gift from God. If you and I would learn to think of ourselves and our neighbors in that sense, we would do a better job of living. Remember this: your life and the life of every other person you will meet this day is a gift from God. That is the first lesson.

The second is this: Life is a mission for God.

How often we encounter that in the thoughts and teachings of Jesus. On one occasion he said to his disciples, “Doing the will of him who sent me and bringing his work to completion is my food.” On another occasion he said, “It is not to do my own will that I have come down from heaven, but to do the will of him who sent me.”

For Jesus all of living was a sacred mission assigned to him by the Father. This was true, not only for him, but for every person on earth. He remembered how God had introduced himself to Moses as “The God of Abraham, the God Isaac, and the God of Jacob.” These were the ancient patriarchs through whom God had brought into being the nation of Israel. Moses was the man whom God had used to lead his people out of bondage.

Looking back across the years, Jesus could see the unfolding purpose of God. And then He saw himself as a part of that same purpose. How urgently you and I need that kind of vision. Your life is not a meaningless accident. It is a divine mission. Your assignment is to finish the work of the God who sent you. This is the second lesson.

The third is this: Life is a companionship with God.

Listen once more as Jesus talked with his disciples: “I am not alone; I have at my side the one who sent me, even the Father.” Then again, “The One who has sent me is with me. He has not deserted me.”

Jesus had such an awareness of the presence of God that he was never alone, not even in the hours of solitude. God, for him, was not back there in history, or up there in heaven, or out there in the future. He was the ever-present Father, Friend, Helper, and Companion. When we understand this, it is plain to see why Jesus believed in life after death. Life for Jesus was a great adventure with God; so real, so rich, and so radiant that it was worth going on with forever. For you and me, it can be the same.

C32 Resurrection of the Dead - Lk 20, 27-38

The Sadducees accepted only the first five books of Moses, and, in practice, did not believe in life after death, as such doctrine was not included in the Torah. But, in order to ridicule Jesus’ doctrine, they accepted some of the Pharisees’ teachings. One such

doctrine was the law of Levirate ( Dt. 25 ), which provided for the marriage of a widow to her deceased husband’s brother ( to ensure the continuance of his name and line ). The Sadducees made the story all the more ridiculous by saying that one such widow had married seven brothers, as all seven died without giving her an offspring!

Jesus dignified their proposal by quoting scriptures from the Torah ( Ex 3, 6 ): “God is the Lord of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob,” which means they are still living. The question, however, remains with regard to the kind of life after death. The resurrection of the dead is not a continuation of the earlier life but a transformation into a new life. The dead rise to acquire a new and perpetual relationship with God – and no one else.

Marriage will no longer be a necessary means of perpetuating one’s name or the population. Christians have always believed “in the resurrection of the dead, and life everlasting.” We refer to it as “heaven”, “paradise”, “the beatific vision of God”, “eternal rest”, etc. Life here on earth might be wonderful – at least for some people – but it’s not forever. No matter what some fortune-tellers say, we can’t talk to dead people. That’s why so many people have such different ideas about what happens after we die.

All major religions teach a very big idea about what happens after we die. Our bodies really die, but something in us keeps on living. Even those who do not believe in God

accept that death is not the end of everything. The name for the part of us that lives on after death is different for all religions. Jews and Christians call it our soul. The ancient Egyptians called the soul ‘ba’. The Hindus call the soul ‘atman’. In Islam the soul is called nafs, or sometimes ruh. The Arabic word for soul, ruh, is the same as the Hebrew word ruach, and they both mean breath or spirit. A soul or breath is the part of us that is good or kind, loving and protecting, curious and caring.

Judaism, Christianity, and Islam teach that our souls keep living after our bodies die. And where do they live? You guessed it! They live in heaven or hell; heaven and hell mean pretty much the same for Jews, Christians and Muslims. Heaven is the place where the souls of good people go after the body they were living in dies and hell is the place where the souls of bad people go.

People wonder a lot what heaven and hell look like, and people wonder even more about how you know if you are good enough for heaven or bad enough for hell.

These are big questions, but they can’t be answered for sure until after we die and look around, and when that happens there will be no telephones to call home and tell folks the news! Our liturgical language, however, keeps feeding us with images and ideas of a material paradise. The funeral prayers and hymns continue to promise us ‘eternal rest’, the company of the angels, the vision of God face to face, etc.

ls the Sadducees that, after we die, our social relations and life cease to exist. There will be no marriages, no family relationships. We shall all be like angels. Life after death will cease to be a world of human relationships. Our lives will be in union with God. “God is the God of the living and the dead.” That is often expressed as the ‘plenitude of life – union with God.’ God ultimately will be the fulfillment of love.

Plenitude of life’ means neither ‘rest for all eternity’ nor continuing to live without stopping. ‘Eternal rest’ may express the belief in the cessation of all pains and tribulations that we suffered in this present life.

The image of heaven has never been very appealing. In spite of scripture’s description of gold streets, pearl gates and a perfectly heavenly banquet, we are not moved. Nor does the thought of staring at God for ever excite us. One bored child in heaven is reported to have asked God: “If I am very good, may I play in hell tomorrow?”

Like the Sadducees, we miss the whole point. Heaven is not an escape from hell; it is not the lesser of two evils; it is not the reward for good behavior; it is not passively looking at God. Heaven is the fulfillment of all our desires; it is being intimate with God, knowing God, loving God. That is why religion has been called “the search for lost intimacy.”

NO ATHEISTS IN [CHILEAN] MINES

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The miraculous rescue of all 33 Chilean miners after over 2 months is difficult to understand from a purely secular perspective. In this day and age of militant atheism, coupled with relentless assaults on Christianity, it is refreshing to read about the central role that their faith played in helping these courageous men survive, and of their enormous gratitude to God.

To those who cling to the superstition that there is no meaning to life beyond sheer material existence, we ask them to reflect on the following testimonials. Just as there are no atheists in foxholes, there are no atheists in trapped mines.

- Catholic League

Chilean Miners' Quotes

· “There are actually 34 of us, because God has never left us down here.” Time.com

· “Altars, prayers, rosary beads all came out as soon as word came out. Bringing together the entire country with nuns and priests visiting the mine to provide relatives with emotional support, and praying for there for protection.” CBS

· “Mario Gore Messes who at 63 is the eldest of a group of miners. He became the group’s spiritual leader requesting a crucifix and Catholic statues of saints to construct an underground shrine.” CBS

· “Many miners wore the same t-shirt. It reads, ‘gracias, senor,’ or thank you, Lord.” CBS News

· “More than 1,000 relatives of the stranded miners move to the desert and set up tents. Before long, the area around the San Jose mine becomes a village. A village based on prayers, hope, faith. In fact, they call this place Camp Hope. Every Sunday, there’s a Catholic Mass.” WABC

· “He hugged and kissed just about everyone, and then said of his ordeal. ‘I met God, I met the devil, God won.’” WNBC

· “The miners aren’t coming out of the mine empty-handed. They will carry with them letters from loved ones, religion statues, and rocks from the mine.” WABC

· “It ended everything as a blessing of God.” Fox News Channel

· “Mario Gomez, 63 years old, he stepped out of that capsule into the arms of his wife, Lila, then he hugged her and then he took to her knee and prayed to God and the Virgin Mary.” CNN

· “Religion has played a large part in their hope insofar as their desire to get out of there.” Fox News Business

· “They have been touched by God.” Fox News Business

· “They’re being reunited with that land that they were singing about. It’s a belief in God, belief in religion, and the beauty of that country that helped to sustain them all of this time and now, here they are back up.” CNN

· “We’ve seen that for some of the miners that have come out talking about their spiritual cris underground and it’s a tremendously emotional moment for these men. Jeff, I wanted to talk about that religious moment there. We had one of the miners after he came up he said, he felt like he saw both God and the devil down there and he saw that God won. That is a case where religion can just be so important at a moment like that because faith sometimes is all you have to cling to.” MSNBC

· “Gomez’s ‘Dear Lila’ letter was filled with faith and determination, and showed the world the miners were holding strong. ‘Even if we have to wait months to communicate…I want to tell everyone that im good and we’ll surely come out OK. Patience and faith. God is great and the help of my God is going to make it possible to leave this mine alive.’” Miami Herald

· “When Esteban Rojas came out he knelt down and prayed. In that instant his wife presented him with an image of Our Lady. It would be an image that would stick with many of the others.” La Quarta

· “We find them with God’s help and rescued them as Chileans. In this regard, [the Chilean president] expressed that, ‘God put us to the test this year, but God never puts us a burden that we are not able to cope with.’” Chile.com

· “What began as a possible tragedy, we hope—and thank God—seems to be ending as a true blessing.” Bloomberg.com

· “We have lived a magical night, a night we will remember throughout our lives, a night in which life defeated death.” Los Angeles Times

· “No doubt there will be books and movies and richer detail of a long burial spent, as one miner described it, close to both God and the devil. But it will be hard to beat the day of rescue, when millions watched and celebrated the survival of all hands.”Anchorage Daily News

· “While Rojas was underground, he told his wife of 25 years that it was time for a church wedding ‘once and for all’ to make up for their civil ceremony. The couple have three children.” Arizona Republic

· “We have prayed to San Lorenzo, the patron saint of miners, and to many other saints so that my brothers Florencio and Renan would come out of the mine all right. It is as if they had been born again.” Associated Press Online

· “Pope Benedict XVI said in Spanish that he ‘continues with hope to entrust God’s goodness’ the fate of the men.” Associated Press Online

· “He dropped to his knees after he emerged, bowed his head in prayer and clutched the Chilean flag.” Associated Press Online

· “Gomez wrote ‘patience and faith. God is great and the help of my God is going to make it possible to leave this mine alive.’” Associated Press

· “Jose Henriquez, 55, formed and led a prayer group while trapped and had friends send 33 small Bibles down the tiny supply hole.” Associated Press

· “We give thanks to God.” Associated Press

· “I think I had extraordinary luck. I was with God and with the devil. And I reached out for God.” Atlanta Journal

· “He dropped to his knees after he emerged, bowed his head in prayer, and clutched the Chilean flag.” Boston Globe

· “This has become spiritual.” Boston Globe

· “And so, suddenly, there they were, vigorous and exultant and newly thankful for the privilege of walking atop God’s orb.” Daily News
· “As they came to the surface, most were ebullient—rejoicing with family and friends—and praising God for their blessings.” Daily News Leader

· “Their survival was miracle enough.” Investor’s Business Daily

· “It’s a—I don’t know how to say ‘milagro.’ A miracle.” Journal News

· “Some knelt and prayed, other pumped their fists. All of them are finally free.” Miami Herald

· “I’m praying it all goes well.” New York Times

· “We hope that with the help of God this epic will end in a happy way.” New York Times

· “‘Miracle at the Mine’ is what ‘Good Morning America’ called it, and it was a Nativity scene witnessed worldwide.” New York Times

· “He hugged his wife and sank to his knees in prayer.” New York Times

· “He dropped to the ground in prayer.’ New York Times

· “Some of the miners rescued here said they were touched by God.” New York Times

· “I think I had extraordinary luck. I was with God and with the devil. And I reached out for God.” New York Times

· “Rarely are we reminded so clearly of the sweetness of human life.” News & Observer

· “And now they gathered at the premises owned by a Chilean native, quietly marveling as one by one, the miraculous rescues continued.” Newsday

· “God was always present. It’s a miracle. This recue was so difficult. It is a great miracle.” News Tribune

· “I have suffered much, in the toughest times, I thanked God I had a daughter.” AOLnews.com

· “God wanted me to stay here, I do not know why, maybe for me to change.” AOLnews.com

· “Esteban Rojas, 44, left the rescue capsule and prayed. He got down on his knees, crossed himself, put his hands together in the pose of prayer, crossed himself again, and then put his hands over his head.” CNN.com

· “No. 21 was Jose Henriquez, 55, who had asked for 33 small Bibles to be send to the miners so he could lead a prayer group.” Wall Street Journal

· “Gomez dropped to his knees in prayer and raised his arms up to the heavens before hugging his wife again.” Vancouver Sun

· “The 33 miners trapped in the San Jose mine in Atacama, Chile, have requested that statues and religious pictures be sent down to them as they wait to be rescued.”Catholic Herald

· “Although a crucifix has already been sent down, the miners are continuing to request more statues of Mary and the saints to construct a makeshift chapel. The miners want to set up a section of the chamber they are in as a shrine.” TheNewAmerican.com

· “We always knew that we would be rescued, we never lost faith.” News Tribune